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Spectacles & Spats: Finding Strength in Love’s Quarrells
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Spectacles & Spats: Finding Strength in Love’s Quarrells

Ever found yourself in a tiff over something as innocuous as transition lenses? We sure did, and we're airing out our laundry for you to hear how these everyday spats can actually be the springboard for deeper relationship support. This episode isn't just about the comedy of marital bickering; we're taking a hard look at how adversity and challenges, can paradoxically cement the love between partners. We're all about laughing through the lessons, but we also pack a punch of serious talk on the unexpected ways tough times can tie a stronger knot in the bond of marriage.

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Valentine's Funnies: Sympathy Cards, Chin Hairs, and the Art of Intentionality
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Valentine's Funnies: Sympathy Cards, Chin Hairs, and the Art of Intentionality

Have you ever been caught red-handed giving a sympathy card for Valentine's because the lovey-dovey ones were sold out? Welcome to our Valentine's Day laugh-a-thon where we strip down the hilarious mishaps and tender moments that love throws our way. You'll find yourself nodding along as we banter about the high-octane world of gift-giving and how Blaire struggles to pronounce "Valentine's." We get real about the behind-the-scenes tug-of-war that happens when life's little interruptions collide with podcast recording—because, let's face it, a peaceful house is a rare commodity.

Valentine's Day might have cost a staggering $25.9 billion last year, but can you really put a price tag on plucking a hair from your spouse's chin with your teeth? That's commitment! We're cutting through the commercial craze to bring you tales of funny love notes and gift-giving faux pas that will have you chuckling and shaking your head in agreement. Forget the grand gestures; we're all about the quirky day-to-day tokens of affection that keep the flame alive. And you won't want to miss our take on the latest affectionate antics blowing up social media, from the 'love surge' to our own embarrassing 'choo-choo train'—parenting gold, right there.

As we wrap up this heart-filled hilarity session, remember that it's not about the patio furniture (bad idea, by the way) or the box of mystery chocolates that matters. It's the laughter shared over a pair of unwanted slippers or the eye rolls at yet another unsolicited foot massage that really tells the story of love. Join us for an episode that's not just a celebration of love, but a salute to the perfectly imperfect way we all stumble through it. Whether you're a hopeless romantic or a Valentine's critic, there's a seat at our table of love—just don't bring stuffed animals, we've got plenty.

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Splitting Bills, Not Sides: Laughing Through Life's Little Tiffs
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Splitting Bills, Not Sides: Laughing Through Life's Little Tiffs

Ever found yourself in a heated debate with your spouse about something as simple as the room temperature? We've all been there, and this time, we're pulling back the curtain on those stubborn recurring disagreements that can make or break the harmony in a relationship. Tag along for an intimate exploration as we unpack the mechanics of conflict resolution, the beauty of embracing our differences, and the hilarity that ensues when our morning routine.

Tipping—how much, when, and why—can feel like a social minefield. We'll share a personal quandary that had us laughing and scratching our heads in equal measure. We're talking tipping culture, the pressures of being generous versus being financially savvy, and the sometimes awkward dance around service expectations. Plus, manage not to spill your coffee as we recount the time our power got cut off because somebody (hint: it wasn't the dog) forgot to pay the bill. Financial responsibility and the emotional maturity needed in relationships are on the table, served with a side of candid anecdotes.

Finally, brace yourself for some light-hearted banter on household quirks and the curious ways we navigate the domestic jungle. From the great thermostat debate to the proper technique for shampooing a baby's hair, we're tackling it all. Yes, it's about personal growth, understanding, and the tiny details that contribute to a vibrant relationship—but it's also about learning to laugh together at the silly, yet significant, challenges of shared life. Join us for a journey through the ups and downs, the serious and the silly, as we strive to find balance and joy in the everyday.

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Unwrapping Identity: Moomoos, Marriage and the Quest for Meaning
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Unwrapping Identity: Moomoos, Marriage and the Quest for Meaning

Have you ever paused to consider what truly defines you, beyond your job title or family role? Our latest podcast episode unpacks the concept of identity, particularly through the spiritual lens of our identity in Christ, and how it weaves into the fabric of our marriage and daily interactions. We share candidly about the laughs and lessons learned from small grievances in relationships that, if not checked, can snowball into marital discord. From quirky anecdotes about Walmart Moomoos to exploring the profound implications of understanding oneself, we promise a journey that is as enlightening as it is entertaining.

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Go Off, King: Navigating the GPS and Your Marriage
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Go Off, King: Navigating the GPS and Your Marriage

Strap in, Love Lessons family, for a wild ride through the delightful chaos of marriage! All roads apparently do lead to Rome, as we discuss an odd new trend about men who frequently think about the Roman Empire.

We're getting to the bottom of this and more, with belly laughs and sage wisdom in tow. From the myths of perfection in relationships to jokes about gender roles and the kitchen, we're peeling back the curtain on the quirks that make our partners endearing. Discover how embracing the multitude of differences, from sleep habits to introvert-extrovert dynamics, can strengthen the bonds we share with our significant others.

Prepare to nod along as we confess our own loveable idiosyncrasies, like hoarding our 'skinny clothes' (that we'll probably never fit back into) and battling over who's right—the spouse or the GPS. Our latest episode is a treasure trove of relatable anecdotes that shine a light on the day-to-day joys and challenges of married life. We don't shy away from the nitty-gritty, discussing everything from the philosophical implications of a clean car to the dance of compromise that chore division in a relationship can be. It's a heartfelt journey through understanding and managing the differing opinions and habits that make each partnership unique.

We wrap up with a few chuckles over our #ToxicTraits and the domestic adventures that come with sharing a life. Whether it's the comedy of returning items to the store or justifying the state of our vehicles, we celebrate the little moments that make marriage so rich and fulfilling.

This episode promises to be as enlightening as it is entertaining.

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Confessions of a Marriage Counselor: Heroics of Honest Conversation
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Confessions of a Marriage Counselor: Heroics of Honest Conversation

Ever wondered why your spouse's quirky habits, once endearing, now light the fuse on daily squabbles? This episode pulls back the curtain on the raw truths of relationships and marriage counseling, sharing insights into why those little things can blow up into big issues. From handling criticism like a pro (yes, we even dissect our own one-star review!) to dealing with the unexpected outcomes of my often too-accurate gift predictions, we unpack the complexities of love and communication that many couples navigate.

Navigating relationships often feels like walking a tightrope blindfolded, and can especially feel daunting when we lack perspective. But we look at some common challenges couples face and offer insight on how to move forward. It's more than just stories; it's about changing perspectives and the art of showing grace for harmony's sake.

Therapy isn't a dirty word; it's a brave space that we dive into, debunking the fears and stigmas associated with seeking professional help. As we peel back the layers of the therapeutic process, we confront the performance some clients feel compelled to give and the unrealistic expectations they often harbor. With a touch of humor, we illustrate how authentic communication and vulnerability pave the way to stronger connections. So grab your headphones, and let us guide you through the dance of maintaining, and sometimes rekindling, that spark in your relationship.

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Christmas Chaos: Beavers, Broken Straws, and Bizarre Family Discoveries
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Christmas Chaos: Beavers, Broken Straws, and Bizarre Family Discoveries

This special holiday-themed episode is like unwrapping a present full of stuff you never wanted. Settle in for an entertaining ride through the quirky outtakes from previous episodes of Lov Lessons, that promise to sprinkle your day with joy and maybe even a quirky lesson or two about love and life's unpredictable twists.

From the spellbinding (and sometimes mortifying) revelations of being married to a distant cousin, to the sly grin you can't help but have when your smart home device chimes in uninvited, we're sharing the lighter side of our journey through love's labyrinth. No stone is left unturned as we cover the gamut from technology-induced tantrums to the lighthearted nostalgia of middle school journalism mishaps, all while keeping the conversation as real as the smile that'll be plastered on your face.

And for those moments when the quirks of daily domestic life leave you bewildered—like the mysterious case of the scattered nasal strips or the endearing challenges of communicating in an ADHD-tinged household—we're right there with you, laughing and learning. So, whether you're navigating the rollercoaster of remarriage or simply need a playful escape from the holiday hustle, join us. It's not just about the laughter; it's about finding the extraordinary in the ordinary, learning in the laughter, and making sense of this wild ride called love.

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Piss-Poor Justification: Dog Dilemmas & Striking a Balance in Marriage
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Piss-Poor Justification: Dog Dilemmas & Striking a Balance in Marriage

In this hilarious yet insightful episode, we take you through our misadventures with one of our pets, sharing hard-earned lessons about compromise, acceptance, and facing challenges with grace and humor.

We expose everything from the peculiar world of 'girl math' affecting our financial decisions to the playful dynamics within a marriage. Be ready to laugh out loud as we recount how we've playfully tricked our children (and each other) and discover how adopting a new dog ended up being more challenging than anticipated.

We switch gears towards the end, navigating the tricky waters of differing church beliefs in marriage and providing advice on striking a balance between personal preferences and core values. As Christian counselors and marriage experts, we bring our personal experiences and professional expertise to the table, aiming to provide real, practical advice to help keep your relationships healthy and strong. So buckle up and join us on this rollercoaster ride of love, laughter, and Love Lessons!

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Love, Laughter, and Chunky Shoes: A (Poorly Written) Romance Novel
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Love, Laughter, and Chunky Shoes: A (Poorly Written) Romance Novel

Remember the high top shoes that were once 'uncool' but are now all the rage? Yes, we go down that memory lane and reminisce about how those shoes played a pivotal role in our humble beginnings. From a memorable first date to the evolution of our relationship and our growth as individuals and as a couple, we share it all. We assure you, it's not all rosy; we missed a movie, had a taste of unemployment, and even played a puzzle while waiting. But hey, life's a rollercoaster, and all those turns and loops are what make our story worth sharing on the Love Lessons podcast. So buckle up and join us for this joyride, because we're about to get real!

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Mismatched Outfits (and Emotions): Surviving the Holidays without Throwing Hands
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Mismatched Outfits (and Emotions): Surviving the Holidays without Throwing Hands

Picture this, you're at a family holiday gathering, the turkey is dry, and you’re inches away from a heated argument about the fashion faux pas of matching outfits with your significant other. Remember this vivid scene as we hilariously navigate through the holiday stress and the drama that ensues in family gatherings in our latest episode of Love Lessons.

We start off by sharing some of our side-splitting experiences involving holiday stress, including a trailer mishap and memorable encounters with strangers. Steering the conversation towards a more light-hearted topic, we find ourselves in a spirited debate on matching outfits with your partner - yes, we’re bringing in some childhood nostalgia too. We’re curious to hear your thoughts on this one! We then plunge into the deep end. Setting emotional boundaries in relationships is often overlooked and we tackle this head-on. From personal space to financial limits, we discuss how to say "no" without feeling guilty.

Swerving back into the festive spirit, we dive into family dynamics during the holidays, the chaos of inviting unexpected guests, and some rather unconventional traditions. This includes an unforgettable bonfire mishap and Christmas dinner served in the early afternoon. So, get ready for a rollercoaster ride filled with laughter, stories, and of course, Love Lessons. Trust us, this episode is packed with anecdotes and advice that you don't want to miss!

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Friends with Benefits: From Living Together to Thriving Together
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Friends with Benefits: From Living Together to Thriving Together

Have you ever found yourself living with your spouse like they're just a roommate? We're inviting you to a candid conversation about nurturing the friendship that lies within marriage. We're opening up our personal experiences and sharing insights on how to protect your marriage from dwindling into a mere roommate situation. You'll find hearty laughter in the midst of a serious discussion as we share a hilarious tale about our son’s first birthday and our unexpected journey into recording this episode at home rather than in the Love Lessons studio

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Marriage Myths - Part 3: Understanding Love, Expectations and Emotions in Relationships
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Marriage Myths - Part 3: Understanding Love, Expectations and Emotions in Relationships

Ever wonder how much of what we believe about marriages is just myth? Strap in as we, Dr. Zakk and Blaire Gammon, shake things up and challenge popular marriage misconceptions. We'll unpack the dangers of holding onto the idea of an "ideal soulmate" and how this belief can create unrealistic expectations. We emphasize the importance of appreciating what our spouses do right and learning to control our responses instead of obsessing over their shortcomings.

As a married couple, we understand first-hand the impact of the parenting styles that shaped us. This episode encourages listeners not to replicate or outright reject their parents' relationship dynamics but to learn and adapt. You'll also discover how small consistent actions can yield significant transformations in a relationship. Plus, we explore the power of validating emotions in a relationship and offer practical advice for handling disagreements in a healthy way. And remember, love isn't about perfection, it's about grace, kindness, and understanding - let's navigate these truths together.

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Marriage Myths - Part 2: Debunking Misconceptions and Crafting Love's Action Plan
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Marriage Myths - Part 2: Debunking Misconceptions and Crafting Love's Action Plan

Ready to shatter some deeply ingrained beliefs about love and marriage? Prepare to be challenged as we debunk common myths and misconceptions that could be hindering your relationship's potential. We explore the notion that love should be easy and conquer all, acknowledging that although love is vital, it isn't a magical cure-all. There's no secret recipe for a successful marriage, but with hard work and continuous cultivation, your relationship can thrive. We also highlight the impact of past relationships on our present ones, advocating for the healing of past relational traumas to better prepare for future relationships.

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Marriage Myths - Part 1: The Journey from Illusion to Reality in Relationships
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Marriage Myths - Part 1: The Journey from Illusion to Reality in Relationships

Ever felt like your relationship is trapped in a cycle of fiction, fueled by myths and unrealistic expectations? It's time to break free. On today’s episode of Love Lessons, we expose the falsehoods that are creeping into your love life, propagated by pop culture, romance novels, and even popular music. It's time to untangle these web of lies and lay a solid foundation of truth and faith in your relationship.

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